Wj0ew, 61

What the heck am I doing here? I'm a good person, loyal, very giving - but a firm believer that we are the only people responsible for our happiness. Sooo if someone isn't fulfilling their part of an agreement, its up to us to decide which direction we will go. My wife has no desire to have any physical connection with me, so I can cry about it and leave, or attempt to fulfill my needs through other avenues. I love my wife, I truly enjoy her as a person until I crawl into a cold bed. As a passionate person, I know that I need emotional, and physical attention. Both play an equal role on my wish list. Looking for a person in the same situation, not looking to change any one's life style.
As for you, I would hope that you are here because you have exhausted every possible avenue to fix it. I have, and when I'm laying next to you after we collapse from pure exhaustion because of what we just did, I don't want you to have any regrets, --- is better with no regrets. Besides I want you to have a clear head as I give you a great back rub, or just relax. I'm looking for one person, to want what I have to offer, and who can clearly comprehend my message. I'm pretty straight forward and honest. Isn't that a funny trait to bring to a web site to cheat? But really, I'm not married to you. I want to be that little secretive smile that comes to your face every time you think back to one of our encounters. I want to be a man who didn't change your life, but made it better because you knew me. And I expect the same from you.