Eastslc, 51

I have been married 12 years. I'm not going to leave my wife, but all the same, I am missing physical intimacy. The physical part of my marriage is all but gone. I am looking for someone who can bring a small spark back into my life. A lady friend, if you will. I would love to have that feeling again of knowing that someone out there is thinking of me and wanting me, physically, but I do not want to have the complications of a relationship. If we are helping each other out without anyone knowing, what's the harm?

I think I would like an affair with a married woman (but this is not absolutely critical). This way way we both have something to lose and therefore we will both be extra careful about being --------. I could see her being single, too. That way it's probably easier to meet.

Here is my description. I'm 35 years old, but I look like I'm in my mid to late twenties. I have short dark brown hair. I have brown/hazel eyes. I'm 5 foot 10 inches tall and weigh approximately 175 lbs. While I'm no movie star, I am very cute.