What to do to be a better husband!

[krogoth]

I want to start saying i love my wife...she is my everything...the only person i ever want to talk to or be around. But i get the feeling she doesn't feel the same way...ive done many things to hurt my wife unitentionally...no i never hit my wife....never so much as grab her to hard! I talking about words and things i have said...My wife finds such joy being around others...she always seem happy and ready to snap at me whenever i do something wrong...she been away for a couple weeks at home and just asking how her day is a fight...not that im engaging in battle ;i just ask what she did that day and press for lil detail...I wait for her to come online for hours as she talks to friends and family not responding to my calls. Then she'll come online tell me she tired and logoff for the night. We been married 2 + years and i feel like im nothing to her. Funny thing is i always wanna take her out and see new places, but she never wants to...even when i plan stuff in advance, she'll pass it up and just stay at home watching TV...But when she out without me, she goes everywhere and goes everything i had already wanted to take her and more. What am i doing wrong...does she just hate being with me??? But im always the jerk...even when i do nothing wrong, but she upset about something someone else said! I am loosing my insanity...i just wanna make her happy!!! With me!!!

[oscar67]

be careful how much you try to make someone else happy before you get to busy trying,
to notice that the problem is not you.
from the sound of it you should try and see if she would talk about what's on her mind.be prepared for better or worse.
she has something on her mind the trick is getting her to open up and deal with it. good luck and let me know how it goes.

[partsguy731]

`sometimes I feel my wife, is like dr jekyl one minute .... and mr hyde the next... just about to celebrate 11 years married..... I sooner stay quite then say anything at all.... please advise what to do.