Insecurity????

[ainsleysky]

Hi im new here..i just cant help myself from being alone. hope this will work for me..i really need help.. I am married and have 1 son a 9 months old baby boy.. we got married because i got pregnant..we became a couple for 5months only before we get married..my problem is I think i get insecure after i gave birth to my 1st child..I am always thinking and feeling that my husband is so bored with me because everytime we go out he always want to have friends with us..but im not comfortable with it i always feel that i cannot fit with the group..i hate this kind of feeling..i want him to help me with that feeling but he gets angry evrytime im tellling to him my weakneses..it seems that he wants me to be strong by myself but i want him to help me...so hard to explain but that what i feel hope someone could understand me..

[marriedyoung]

`He just may be more a of social butterfly than you are. He is not bored, just likes to go hang out with friends too. It's a normal thing and he is trying to include you which means he wants you apart of his life. Maybe suggest they come over to your house so you can be comfortable and he can hang out with friends