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grumpyfalcon
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I have been in a sexless marriage for over 2 years now. She acts like it is a reward for good jobs I do. I agreed that I would never force myself on her. I live up to my word, despite the consequences. I am here looking for some release.
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whiteboyinpb
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| .I can relate. Boy , can I relate. I've been happily and faithfully married for 23 years. The last 2 have been spent sleeping alone. I don't want to stray but I need the touch of a woman. I get " rewarded " sometimes but usually if the --- is mentioned , I feel an artic wind come thru. Then I hear " that's all you think about " Well...yeh...or I'm sick , or I'm too tired. What's a man to do ? And women wonder why men stray. |
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goliad
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`Yes, the mere mention of --- to anybody, when you don't want to carry it beyond mere conversation seems to be taboo, even when it's a lonely man, who happens to be married and the --- is non-existent anymore for any number of reasons. But even a man who loves and supports his small family, yet voluntarily goes to the couch for 10 years due to his uncomfortable snoring, and a wife who is too stressed out and has no interest anymore just condemns such men to a life of no more --- at all. It seems grossly unfair for any spouse, man or woman, to be required to not even seek a --------, but limited source of women who want cyber --- if nothing else to have at least some limited pleasure out of what is an endless life of feeling miserable, but maintaining marriage vows. The man, (or woman) who merely seeks --- in print for fun, and relief badly need, does NOT have to be regarded as some sort of pervert or bad person. It is the loss of that natural urge in ONE party that is subjected to living without a personal real need that should not be crucified by premature judgements. Thus most in our category get labeld as some kind of perverts when all we want is the cyber feel of that passion lost. But I suspect most of us are wasting our time. It's too bad that good people get labeled and hammered for natural urges that go unmet anymore.
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profshaved
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Hi All
And there's me thinking i was the only bloke in this area ! sexless sleeps by himself and plays with himself more times than one can imagin LOL
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hunter52
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`I'm afraid I've not handled my sexless marriage so nobly. I have strayed, several times, and have enjoyed it immensely. Is it wrong? Of course, but I'm not yet willing to abdicate my ------ity.
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transplayer
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| .sounds like ya know what ya want,...i to am in persuit of a luv buddy,... |
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`well i have to comment from the other side of the fence. i am female, 27 and have been married 5 years. the --- is down to once a month. i am frustrated and now wondering to this "harmless" site just to get a bit of a buzzz. i dont blame any of you but most of the time couples just arnt -------- compatable
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onebigbabydoll2
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lordy lordy i know what a sexless marriage is its no fun my old man wont even try hes not interested in --- whats wrong with him we are both in our 50s but i need it we all do lordy [/b]
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cmrod2009
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`there are many of us who stay in sexless marriages due to a sense of obligation or something. I have been in such a marrige for almost 2 years now. I must admit that I have had a fling or two. I love --- and at 40 I know what I am doing and know what I want. I don't want to stray, but I love --- too much and the wife has no interest in ---. What is a guy to do? Well I will keep having flings now and again. Maybe it's self destructive, maybe she'll find out and divorce me. Who knows.
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hooked96
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`life is to short not to have ---... thats we are all here... right...
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balikate
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`I'm with you onebigbabydoll2....although I am now 30 and have had 8 years of a hubby that can't/won't have ---. He just wont do anything about it either. But come on...I was 22 the last time I felt like a woman. But I have kids and don't want to uproute them.
Its not just you men that miss out. I close my eyes and wish it back all the time!
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welshlust
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Seems I'm not on my own!
I've been in a sexless marriage for at least two years, which is very frustrating to say the least. Although I'm 55 years young, I still enjoy --- very much!
If there is a lady reading this in a similar position as myself and lives in Wales then please get in touch. We could help each other out! x
*I love mature BBW!* |
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